What is the Grace of God?

 

I love flowers.  They always seem to brighten up life and bring me hope. Flowers are like magic in that I can plant a seed in the dirt and a colorful, fragrant flower will spring to life. And then as I walk in the woods and observe the roadsides, I appreciate all the wildflowers that just come into my life without any work from me at all.  All I have to do is simply enjoy them.  I believe God's grace is something like flowers.  It brightens our lives and brings us hope.  

Paul talks about the grace of God in his letter to Titus, a minister in Crete:

For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people,  training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age,   waiting for our blessed hope, the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ...Titus 2: 11-13  (ESV)

The Grace of God has appeared, like the wildflowers appear. But flowers are very obvious and easily visible to our physical eyes. What is the Grace of God? and what form does it take? And most importantly, how do I get it?

I once heard another minister, Herb Alsup, explain grace with an acrostic:

Grace is...

God’s 

Riches

At 

Christ’s

Expense

As they say, there is no free lunch. There are many things that bring wildflowers into bloom...sunshine, water, the nutrients in the earth, the seed produced by a mature plant, the animal that dropped the seed. Much work went into that wildflower, though I only see the beauty and grace of the bloom. In the same way, God's wonderful riches of grace came to us because someone else did the work and paid the price.

But grace is more than beauty and enjoyment. When we receive grace from someone we receive their favor.  That can include forgiveness, privileges, gifts and simply their attention and presence.

The Bible tells us that we have been made the recipients of the grace of God and that is really good news, since mankind has so many problems doing life on our own.  In spite of our failures, we have God's favor, forgiveness, gifts, help and abiding presence. That is indeed riches!

We do not deserve grace for anything we have done.  We only receive grace through the perfect life and sacrifice of Jesus Christ.  He came to earth and lived the perfect human life. But he was hated by many people and was turned into the Roman authorities as a trouble maker.  Jesus was executed as a common criminal, but something cosmic was going on that only Jesus knew about. On the cross (the form of Roman execution), Jesus was submitting to a ritual sacrifice.  On the cross, He took our place and our guilt was laid upon Him. It sounds terrifically preposterous, right? But in another way makes perfect sense. The only man who was perfect was the only one who could make the perfect sacrifice to end all sacrifices and make things right with the Father.  

After his death, he was laid in a tomb. But after three days something magnificent happened. He then was brought back to life by the power of God.

How do we know this? There were many eyewitnesses to his resurrection as well as to his being lifted up into heaven.  The apostles and the early Christians preached the death and resurrection of Christ.  In fact they gave their lives for this message during the early persecutions.

We can believe it is true.  Now it is only left to us to receive the grace of God that comes to us through Jesus Christ.

How do we receive it now?

The Apostle Peter preached to the crowds after the death and resurrection of Christ.  He told them about the remarkable event of Christ’s death, resurrection and ascending to heaven.  They asked, What should we do to be saved?

“Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the

remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.”- Acts 2:38

In fact, many of Peter’s audience did this very thing and we read that three thousand people were baptized that day.

Three thousand people received the grace of God that day: they received salvation and the gift of the Holy Ghost, the power of God that lives inside of us and makes us into people no longer dead inside but alive and spiritually powerful.  So powerful is this Holy Ghost that the Apostle Paul says that it will be the agent of resurrecting our own bodies when Christ returns.

But if the Spirit of him that raised up Jesus from the dead dwell in you, he that raised up Christ from the dead shall also quicken your mortal bodies by his Spirit that dwelleth in you. - Romans 8: 11

Not only do we receive this great gift, what Jesus called eternal or unending life, but we also receive another blessing through it.  We receive a lesson in how to live our lives right now through the grace of God.  We don’t live this kind of life in order to earn the grace of God, but we live this kind of life in response to what we have been given and to make the most of it.  Right now.

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I didn't grow up hearing a lot about the grace of God. I had heard the message of salvation and had confessed Jesus as Lord, I had confessed and repented of my sins and I had been baptized. I faithfully attended church several times a week with my family. But the grace of God and the gift of the Holy Spirit....that was something new to me as I began to read the Bible for myself as an adult. Growing up, God's grace was something that was mentioned here and there but I don't think it was ever explained to me. It had to do with my faith and religion, I knew that, and like many children and teenagers, I had a tendency to see religion as a series of duties and limits on my behavior.  

But then I started seeking God from my own immediate need. And it was incredibly refreshing when I started reading the Bible and discovering the goodness and love of God for myself!

I first began to comprehend this grace as I was reading in the Gospel of John as a young woman.  I had just had our first child, a baby boy, and I was at home a lot with him that summer.  I had it in my mind that I wanted to become a more serious Christian and so I decided to spend his napping times reading through the New Testament.

I was ready for a spiritual encounter because I was truly seeking some help.  In the last few years of my life, I'd gone through many changes: I had studied for and earned a college degree, married, bought and established a home, became pregnant and started teaching Spanish at a public high school. And then, during that first year of teaching, I had had a baby. My life was going great to all appearances!

But something wasn't quite right. In the postpartum months, I began waking up in the middle of the night with a racing heart and was sure I was going to die any moment. What was going on with me? I was just 22 years old and in the best of health. I had everything any woman could want. I had done all the things I was supposed to do as a developing woman...achieved good grades, played sports, finished college, gotten a teaching certificate and even a job... and had married a great man. But....at home, I was struggling. I was clueless about how to run a household and care for an infant. I was a hot mess of anxiety and disorganization at home and this anxiety was surfacing in panic attacks.

One night I awoke with the baby in the middle of the night for a feeding.  I looked down at the sweet, adorable child and realized that I was absolutely powerless to keep him 100% safe. I felt completely out of control.  I felt in my spirit the weight of all the terrible things that could happen...accidents, diseases, disasters. I realized that my peace, my happiness and my joy were all tied up in this little baby, and yet he was just a mortal, like I was. My heart filled with fear and my heart raced. I had no idea what to do, so I turned to Jesus and prayed and called out to Him and as I prayed, my nerves and spirit calmed.  I thanked God for helping me and the sense of His real presence in my life for the first time.

I had a longing for more of this peace and to talk to Jesus and to get to know Him better.  I realized I’d never read the Bible, the word of God, for myself so I began reading the book of John, the story of Jesus' life, teachings, and miracles. As I read, I found myself loving this Jesus, and had a true sense of his divinity.  As I read about His life of love, I found joy and conviction filling my soul. So many things began to change in my heart and in my life and I began to eagerly devour the ideas of the Bible.   I can’t say that I was joyfully serving in my home yet.  I definitely had a  long way to go on being a godly wife and homemaker.  But I had found a spiritual home in Christ, I had new meaning and purpose. My life slowly began to take on some peace which has stayed with me these 34 years since I first started reading and praying.

Now I look back on that time and I realize that God was showing me His grace and mercy and that I was responding to that.  He was filling me with His Holy Spirit and I was empowered by that. His acts of love and sacrifice were teaching me how to live and did not go unproductive as I began to devote myself wholeheartedly to reading and obeying His Word.  I did this not from a spirit of “I have to do this because I will go to Hell if I don’t” but out of gratitude and love.  I did it out of God's Grace.

What is the grace of God? It is the riches and favor of God that came to us at Christ's expense. And I'm very thankful for it.

But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which He loved us,   even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved— and raised us up with him and seated us with Him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of His grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus. Ephesians 2: 4-7 (ESV)

Blessings,

Amy Laurie

Part One: What will we do, sisters?

 Christmas Day, 2020

Do you ever think about what are you here for? What is the purpose of your life?

Do you have a vision for what your life will be all about?

As a Christian woman you may be wondering what God wants you to do to serve Him.  

I know I have been in that place. I have found myself doing all the things my culture was telling me to do but still feeling scattered and exhausted, and wondering what was the point of all the activity of my life. 

That’s when I started asking God to help me. And reading His word more closely. And taking it more seriously.

The Bible actually has some things to say about what women should do with their lives and that is what this blog is about.

In the letter to Titus, the Apostle Paul lays out priorities for women as being marriage, children, being keepers of the home and cultivating godly feminine character (Titus 2:3-5). 

Some call this Biblical Womanhood, but I think I will call it New Testament womanhood because it is a teaching that is so closely connected to the Good News of Christianity.

In this blog you will learn the roles and responsibilities of Christian women and how to grow in these areas.

We will do the spiritual work of building a mindset that conforms to the will of God. Changing a mindset involves reading scripture, prayer, learning to listen to God, repentance and planning for a new way of life. I’ll also be recommending and taking recommendations from my readers on books, blogs, vlogs and YouTube channels that will be helpful on this journey we are taking together.

We will also have practical aspects of a woman’s family ministry such as planning, setting up personal and household systems, organizing, cooking and meal planning, pregnancy and childcare, homeschooling, relationship dynamics, staying healthy, and finally, the domestic arts such as sewing, gardening, preserving, knitting and crochet.

I hope you will join me on our exciting adventure into domesticity for the love of Christ.

-Amy Laurie

Marriage Before the Romance Novel

Jan Steen, "The Merry Family"

The romantic comedy or "chick flick" is a wildly popular genre of film. Women love the conflict and tension leading up to the happy ending of wedding bells.  But the romantic, emotional exuberance of the modern ideal belies much of the history of traditional marriage. Indeed, the two conceptions of marriage are so different as to make you stop and think about whether they are the same institution at all.

In modern societies the purpose of marriage is romantic love, intimacy, and individual fulfillment. In fact, 70 percent of divorcing couples in this study give lack of commitment (mostly due to an absence of romantic love or a feeling of having drifted away emotionally) as the reason for their divorce.  

But the purpose of marriage in ancient societies was radically different.  Up until the last hundred years or so, people married for these reasons:

• to provide legitimate children to perpetuate family property. 

• to maintain influence in the community.

• to create alliances.

• to consolidate property .

• to care for aging relatives.  

Marriage in pre-modern times was about surviving and thriving in a hostile world of scarcity.

Husbands and wives for much of history have had low expectations for emotional fulfillment in marriage.  The idea was that mutual respect and affection were achieved as each spouse fulfilled his or her part of the union and built a family together. Individuals in traditional societies believed that a happy marriage could be learned after securing the foundation and means of family life:  property, family connections, religion, children.

Before modern, big government and bureaucracies, families and households were a form of subsistence. There could be no survival or even existence without the family and the extended clan of relatives. And everyone had a contribution to make according to their sex.  The husband and/or his family provided a house, property, and name, and the wife and her family would bring the dowry, provide children and housekeeping.

Frederick George Cotman,"One of the Family"

Finally, and not least importantly, families before modernity were a form of immortality as descendants were expected to bear children to carry on the family line.  Then those children were obligated to bury, remember and honor their parents and ancestors, perpetuate their memories and care for their burial sites.  The family was identity and so these memorials were significant to an individual’s purpose and meaning.  Without knowing who and where they came from, the traditional folk hadn't a clue what life was about.

Family burial plots in an Austrian church yard

A body is first buried in a temporary family grave, then after some years the skeletal remains are removed and placed in an ossuary. 

Thanks for stopping by.  Next time we'll look at the biblical roots of marriage.

Be blessed and be a blessing!

~Amy Laurie